i recently found out that my husband of 20 years has been e-mailing and instant messaging another woman. he said she knows he is married. the L word was exchanged in the e-mail that i saw. My questions is, as a woman how can you do this to another woman? I just don't understand how woman can do this and look at themselves in the mirror. He says he didn't do anything wrong, do you women feel the same way?
she doesn't care about you, so no loss to her. I would be more concerned about your husband! He is obviously looking out side your marrage for something. sure the other woman is at fault..but so is your husband, he did it once he could do it again!!!
You have to understand that the woman has no obligation towards you. Just as you're looking out for your interest, she is looking out for hers. It's entertainment to her; she is not "moral police", and she is leaving it up to you two (you and your husband) to sort out your marriage. You really shouldn't be expecting other people to look out for your marriage - this is the job you and your husband, as two adults, should be doing. The question you should be asking yourself is not about the other woman - it's about your husband; how can HE look in the mirror when he knows he broke a promise? He is the one you need to take it up with; other women owe absolutely nothing to you.
I very well agree with you. I have been married for almost 4 years and my husband was emailing another chic that was his ex years ago for the simple fact that me and him where fighting at the time. It really pissed me off that another "women" would do this but unfortunately there are people out there that hawhy men cyber cheatve no self respect and don't realize what they are doing hurts other people. But let me tell you this, they don't leave this world with out paying for there mistakes. I am very sorry that this happened to you that I know how it feels. It happened to me 8 months ago and i am still trying to heal from it. I always think of how he made time for her and didn't for me but what we have to do is if we forgive we have to forget it hurts the more we think about it. So to all the women out there that think its okay to talk to men that are married in a way your not supposed to or you cheat or make them cheat always remember that you WILL NOT leave this world with out paying for what you did i promise!!! Well Hun good luck and men will never understand!! ;)
If you read the word love it can easily be said as in friendship... Sometimes we come across sincere people who touch our lives... Who we call friends on here...
They share their life experiences with you as well as ups and downs they are facing... And likewise you them... IF it stays at just friends, then I see nothing wrong with it...
IF it crosses that line, I understand completely how you would feel this way...
Some women just don't care and you cannot really place blame on her... Your hubby on the other hand should know you well enough to know how you would react to it... If it would be hurtful or not...
I am sorry for your pain...
Once I know a man is married, I stop chatting.
He had to have said many things that got and kept her attentions. She's too lazy to go out and find a single guy and sounds like she'll take what she can get.
Your hubby needs to be punishedwhy men cyber cheat. If the "L" word was used, why not kick his assss out and see how much he loves her then.
i have and its out of boredom, i never got off on it ever and it was nice to have a safe relationship, you guys give each other advice and can sometimes help a relationshio...like for example if me and my bf were fighting i would talk to this one guy and he would tell me to chill out and what i should do...nothing major.
People are too selfcentered to care about the sanctity of marriage. Ultimately it's HIS fault for going there. BEating a dead horse about the moral integrity of the other woman...obviously she doesn't have any. He's dead wrong!
I would never want to intentionally do that to any woman! I wouldn't want it to happen to me. I think your husband may be bored try spicing your life up a bit, so he stops looking for companionship outside of your marriage.....
He certainly did do something wrong! He probably thinks that just because it was done over the internet, it's harmless ... um, I don't think so! You don't need that kind of drama, put your foot down and let him know how it is.
Woman that does this has no moral and very selfish. Bear in mind, it takes two to mingle. Your husband is as much at fault as the other woman. Don't just question the woman, question and man too, will you?
IT IS WRONG AND SOME PPL JUST DO NOT HAVE MORALS BUT YOU DO NOT HAVE TO PUT UP WITH THIS TYPE OF THING.
Of course he did something wrong......you deserve better....i wonder how he would feel if the shoe was on the other foot?
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